How do I rebuild this relationship? I know this might be a reoccurring question for girls that have been cheated on by their boyfriends. How do you actually rebuild the foundation of the relationship back to the way it was? To start with it is normal to feel sad, hurt, confused and depressed… But the main question is should you stay or leave? This topic is also being raised in the current media with basketball player Dwayne Wade and actress Gabrielle Union. According to the Hollywood Gossip, Earlier this week, just days after Wade and Union got engaged, the NBA player confirmed he fathered a love child while the two were on a break. It’s definitely obvious Gabrielle is not affected by it because the two are still engaged. I provided a few tips to rebuild a broken relationship.This article was rejected because you did not follow the guidelines for writing headlines. Must be descriptive.

How do I rebuild this relationship? I know this might be a reoccurring question for girls that have been cheated on by their boyfriends. How do you actually rebuild the foundation of the relationship back to the way it was? To start with it is normal to feel sad, hurt, confused and depressed… But the main question is should you stay or leave? This topic is also being raised in the current media with basketball player Dwayne Wade and actress Gabrielle Union. According to the Hollywood Gossip, Earlier this week, just days after Wade and Union got engaged, the NBA player confirmed he fathered a love child while the two were on a break. It’s definitely obvious Gabrielle is not affected by it because the two are still engaged. I provided a few tips to rebuild a broken relationship.

1. Do not allow this relationship to take away your confidence and who you are. The first thing a female thinks about is that they are the problem or they are not good enough. However, if he cheated on you, he is the one with the problem not you.

2. Do not take him back unless you have completely forgiven him. So often we can say that we forgive him for cheating but we are consistently bringing up the situation time and time again. If it takes you a week, 2 weeks, a month or even a year. Use that time to get back in the groove of things.

3. Do not seek revenge. Two wrongs do not make a right. If you are also cheating on him you cannot be mad because you are doing the same thing he did to you.

4. Do not stalk him or the girl. Do not get on his Facebook, twitter or email looking for trouble. If you are willing to take him back you have to believe that the relationship is starting fresh and new. Do not go through his phone reading his messages. His messages are meant for him to read not you.

5. Make sure he is showing that he has changed. He needs to make improvements to be a better man for you. Make sure he is worth it.

Getting cheated on is heart-wrenching. Once you have accepted the reality and decide to take him back these tips can come in handy. Just make sure from now on he is faithful towards you.